Returning to school can be a whirlwind of emotions for parents, from excitement about new beginnings to apprehension about the challenges ahead. Allah Almighty says, “Wealth and children are the decorations of the present life.” Quran: 18:46. Thus, parents have to take extreme care for their children. To help parents navigate this transition smoothly, here are 10 pieces of advice to consider:
- Establish a Routine Early
Consistent routines are crucial for children's well-being and academic success. Start implementing a back-to-school schedule well in advance to ease the transition. Include bedtime routines, mealtimes, and study periods. The Prophet (SAWA) said, ‘Verily Allah, most High, loves for you to perfect a good deed when you perform it.’2 Al-Albani authenticated it
- Communicate Openly with Your Child
Talk to your child about their feelings about returning to school. Address any concerns or anxieties they may have. Open communication fosters trust and understanding.
- Create a Conducive Study Space
Designate a quiet and well-lit area in your home for your child to study. Ensure it's free from distractions and has the necessary supplies.
- Encourage Healthy Habits
Emphasize the importance of healthy eating and adequate sleep. A well-nourished and rested child is better equipped to focus and learn. The Quran encourages regular work . Allah says. In Surah Luqman (Luqman): Verse 15 "O my son, establish regular prayer, and enjoin good and forbid evil, and be patient in whatever befalls you; for this is a matter of firm resolve. And do not swell with pride, for Allah does not love the arrogant and boastful."
- Get Involved in School Activities
Participate in school events and volunteer opportunities. Your involvement shows your child that education is a priority and strengthens your connection with the school community.
- Set Realistic Expectations
Avoid setting unrealistic goals for your child. Celebrate their achievements, no matter how small, to boost their confidence.
- Limit Screen Time
Excessive screen time can interfere with sleep, attention, and academic performance. Establish healthy screen time limits and monitor your child's online activities.
- Foster a Love of Learning
Encourage your child to explore their interests and passions. Reading, visiting museums, and attending cultural events can ignite a lifelong love of learning.
- Stay Connected with Teachers
Maintain regular communication with your child's teachers. This will help you stay informed about their progress and address any issues promptly.
- Celebrate Successes and Offer Support
Acknowledge your child's efforts and achievements. Offer encouragement and support during challenging times. A positive and supportive home environment can significantly impact your child's academic success. Abu Mas’ud reported: The Prophet, peace and blessings be upon him, said, “Whoever guides someone to goodness will have a reward like one who did it.” Ṣaḥīḥ Muslim
By following these tips, you can help your child have a successful and enjoyable back-to-school experience. Remember, your role as a parent is essential in shaping your child's educational journey.
