5 Proofs Against Forsaking Fellow Muslims

Ibn Kathir reported in Al-Bidayah
wa al-Nihayah, and Ibn Hisham in Al-Sirah Al-Nabawiyyah from Ibn
Ishaq, who said: A man from Arash came to Makkah with some of his camels, and
Abu Jahl bought them from him but delayed paying him their price. So, the Arashi
man came and stood before a gathering of Quraysh, while the Messenger of Allah ﷺ was sitting in close by. The man said: “O
people of Quraysh! Who will help me against Abu al-Hakam ibn Hisham? I am a
stranger, a traveler, and he has wrongfully withheld my right.” The people of
that gathering said to him: “Do you see that man sitting over there?”—referring
to the Messenger of Allah ﷺ,
while they were mocking him because they knew of the enmity between him and Abu
Jahl, “Go to him; he will help you get your right.”
So, the Arashi man approached the
Messenger of Allah ﷺ
and said:
“O servant of Allah, indeed Abu al-Hakam ibn Hisham has wrongfully withheld my
due. I am a stranger, a traveler, and I asked these people to point me to
someone who can help me get my right from him, and they directed me to you. So
please get me my right. May Allah have mercy on you.” He ﷺ said: “Let’s go to him,” and the Messenger
of Allah ﷺ stood and went with him. When the Quraysh
saw him getting up, they said to a man among them: “Follow him and see what he
does.” The Messenger of Allah ﷺ
went until he reached Abu Jahl’s house and knocked on his door.
Abu Jahl said: “Who is it?” He ﷺ said: “Muhammad. Come out to me.”
So he came out to him, and there was no color left in his face, it had gone
pale. The Prophet ﷺ
said: “Give this man his right.” Abu Jahl replied:
“Yes, don’t you leave until I give it to him.” He went inside, brought out the
man’s due, and gave it to him. Then the Messenger of Allah ﷺ left and said to the Arashi: “Here’s what
he owns you.” So, the Arashi man went back to the gathering and said: “May
Allah reward him with goodness. By Allah, he got me my right!”
The Prophet ﷺ was keen to help the needy, stand by their
side, and respond when someone sought his aid. This help he ﷺ offered was not to someone who had
accepted Islam, but to a man he didn’t even know. Yet the Prophet ﷺ did not let him down. This is a call
against betrayal and abandonment, especially toward the people of faith.
Below are several proofs that
demonstrate the prohibition of letting down fellow believers:
1. Support and Aid
is a Right Among Believers
Allah the Almighty said regarding
the believers: “Indeed, those who have believed and
emigrated and fought with their wealth and lives in the cause of Allah and
those who gave shelter and aided - they are allies of one another. But those
who believed and did not emigrate - for you there is no guardianship of them
until they emigrate. And if they seek help of you for the religion, then you
must help.” (Al-Anfal: 72)
Islam calls upon the Muslim to
support his brethren, whether oppressor or oppressed. In Sahih al-Bukhari,
it is narrated from Anas that the Messenger of Allah ﷺ said: “Help
your brother, whether he is an oppressor or he is an oppressed one.” People
asked, “O Allah's Messenger (ﷺ)! It is all right to help him if he is oppressed, but how
should we help him if he is an oppressor?” The Prophet (ﷺ) said, “By preventing him from oppressing others.” Meaning:
You support him in all situations and never let him down.
Muslims
are like one body, In Sahih al-Bukhari
and Muslim, it is narrated from Abu Musa that the Prophet ﷺ said: “A
believer to another believer is like a building whose different parts enforce
each other.” The Prophet (ﷺ) then clasped his hands with the fingers interlaced (while
saying that).
It is the right of a Muslim over
another that when he calls upon him, he responds. In Sahih Muslim, it is narrated from Abu
Hurayrah that the Messenger of Allah ﷺ said: “There
are six rights of a Muslim upon a Muslim.” They asked: What are they O,
Messenger of Allah? He replied: “When you meet him, greet him; when he invites
you, respond to him; when he seeks counsel, give him advice; when he sneezes
and praises Allah, say to him: 'May Allah have mercy on you (Yarhamuk-Allah)';
when he is sick, visit him; and when he dies, follow his funeral.”
2. Islam Forbids
Letting Others Down
In Sahih al-Bukhari
and Muslim, from Abdullah ibn Umar, the Messenger of Allah ﷺ said: “The
Muslim is the brother of the Muslim, he doesn't oppress him and doesn't put him
into ruin, and whoever is concerned for the needs of his brother, Allah is
concerned for his needs, and whoever relieves a Muslim of a burden, Allah will
relieve him of a burden from the burdens of the Day of Judgement and whoever
covers (the faults of) a Muslim, Allah will cover (his faults) on the Day of
Judgement.” This is a clear prohibition from the Prophet ﷺ against failing to support a fellow
Muslim, as it contradicts true brotherhood.
3. Allah and His
Messenger Disown the One Who Lets Down the People of Truth
Al-Hakim narrated from Ibn Abbas,
that the Messenger of Allah ﷺ
said: “Whoever supports an oppressor to
invalidate a right with falsehood, then the protection of Allah and His Messenger does not apply to him.”
4. Punishment in
This World for Letting Others Down
Al-Tabarani and
al-Bayhaqi narrated from Jabir ibn Abdullah and Abu Talhah al-Ansari that the Messenger of Allah ﷺ said: “No
(Muslim) man will desert a man who is a Muslim in a place where his honour
aspersed and his respect may be violated without Allah deserting him in a place
here he wishes his help; and no (Muslim) man who will help a Muslim in a place
where his honour may be aspersed and his respect violated without Allah helping
him in a place where he wishes his help.”
And in al-Jami‘ al-Ṣaghir, from
Ibn Mas‘ud, he said: “Whoever supports an
oppressor, Allah will give him power over him.”
5. Severe Warning
in the Hereafter
Ahmad narrated from Sahl ibn Ḥunayf, that the Prophet ﷺ said: “Whoever
witnesses a believer being humiliated in front of him and does not support him,
while he is able to support him, Allah will humiliate him before the heads of
creation [on the Day of Judgement].”
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