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Some parents commit serious parenting mistakes that can be difficult, if not impossible, to correct in the future. These mistakes are not limited to physical punishment and verbal abuse but extend to other actions that can leave a lasting, detrimental impact on the children's psychology, behavior, and thinking, potentially harming their relationships with their parents and siblings.
To prevent parents from continuing these mistakes or similar ones and from damaging their relationships with their children, we will discuss additional errors and their negative effects on the children:
Children encounter challenges and problems at various stages of their development. Sometimes, parents underestimate or completely ignore the issues their children face, causing these problems to worsen over the years and become ingrained in the child's personality and behavior.
Common problematic behaviors include bad manners, excessive pampering, stubbornness, arguing, swearing, and hitting other children. A significant mistake, often made by mothers, is overprotecting and defending the child, shielding them from the consequences of their actions. Instead of allowing the child to take responsibility for their decisions and learn from their mistakes, the mother steps in to apologize on their behalf, which prevents the child from understanding their errors and the importance of not repeating them.
As a result, the child grows up relying on others to defend and apologize for them, eventually learning to blame others instead of facing and acknowledging their mistakes. Therefore, parents need to address any improper behavior in their child and monitor it regularly. They should decide how to handle and correct these behaviors while the child is still young, before they become deep-rooted habits that are hard to change.
One of the gravest mistakes parents can make is showing favoritism among their children. Even if this favoritism manifests as treating one child exceptionally well while merely ignoring the other, this behavior is still profoundly unjust. The child who receives poor treatment or is ignored will not only develop resentment towards the preferential parent but also towards the favored sibling.
Thus, parental favoritism harms not only the parent-child relationship but also the sibling relationship, fostering feelings of animosity, resentment, and jealousy that may persist long after the parents have passed away and the siblings have gone their separate ways.
Parents must recognize their mistakes in parenting, acknowledge them, and strive to apologize and correct them as much as possible.
Many parents confuse the need for firmness in certain situations with a constant state of strictness, leading to harshness that creates barriers between them and their children. Instead of being the safe haven their children turn to in times of trouble, the parent becomes the problem the children want to avoid. This dynamic often leads to children hiding aspects of their lives from their parents and ceasing to seek their advice or include them in decision-making.
Parents must understand that while firmness is necessary at certain stages and in specific situations, compassion, empathy, respect, and open communication should be the foundation of the lifelong parent-child relationship. As one child remarked years after being beaten by his father, he no longer remembered the reason for the beating but would never forget that his father had struck him. The same applies to other harsh and severe interactions; the child may forget the cause but will always remember the harsh treatment.
The most significant consequences of harshness include damaged relationships between the child and the parent and a sense of isolation experienced by the children despite their parents being alive, due to the lack of a supportive and affectionate relationship, that drive children to seek their parent’s advice or help.
Some parents struggle to distinguish between their desire for their children to succeed and expecting perfection from them. These parents often obsess over academic performance, turning it into a major issue if the child does not excel or achieve certain grades. This obsession extends to choosing study fields, universities, and career paths, with some parents forcibly imposing their preferences on their children. If the children choose differently, the parents express disappointment and view it as a deviation from the path to success.
Parents should differentiate between their duty to offer advice and opinions and imposing their views on their children, condemning them for making independent life choices that only concern them, even if it’s not harmful or enrages Allah the Almighty.
The most severe consequence of this behavior is the resentment that may develop in the child if forced into a disliked field of study, resulting in a lifelong sense of unfulfilled dreams and aspirations that their parents deprived them of. The constant demand for excellence can also lead to psychological issues, self-loathing, and a lack of self-satisfaction due to continuous parental criticism and dissatisfaction, making parents love conditioned to their child’s success, which is one of the worst punishments any parent can subject their child to.
These are serious parenting mistakes that harm the parents themselves first and foremost. Therefore, parents should prioritize learning proper parenting principles. When faced with any incorrect or unhealthy behavior from their child, they must understand its causes and how to help the child overcome it. Challenges and issues vary depending on the child's gender and age, and parents must take this into account. Above all, parents should seek Allah's guidance, pray for His assistance, and rely on Him in all matters.
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In June 2019, the Elliott School of International Affairs at George Washington University, one of the world’s leading schools in international political studies, launched a project titled Youth Politics in the Middle East and North Africa under the Project on Middle East Political Science (POMEPS). The initiative organized a workshop on youth politics in Amman, Jordan, and some African countries, in collaboration with the Phoenix Center for Economic and Informatics Studies.
The papers and discussions at the workshop aimed to unpack the concept of “youth politics.” They explored questions like: What distinguishes the latest generation of youth from previous ones? How is youth activism evolving? What is their relationship with politics, public attitudes, and government policies? And, is it possible to generalize about the experience of being young and politically engaged in today’s Middle East?
Many Arab Youth Avoid Official Engagements and Turn to Social Networks
Youth in the Arab world represent a vital part of society, accounting for a significant portion of the population and seen as a primary driver of change and innovation. Roughly 60% of the Arab region’s population is under 30 years old, with half between the ages of 15 and 29. However, young people face numerous political and economic challenges in Arab countries, limiting their effective participation in public life and constraining their role in decision-making.
In light of these significant challenges, the recent study from the project highlighted several important findings:
Youth Face Underrepresentation as Traditional Elites Dominate Most Political Systems
Major Challenges
Beyond the paper’s findings, the main challenges facing Arab youth can be summarized as follows:
In Some Arab Countries, Youth Suffer from Repression of Freedoms, Including Freedom of Expression, Assembly, and Creativity
The Arab World Will Not Achieve Real Progress Unless Youth Are Integrated as Active Partners in Building the Future
Empowering youth in the Arab world is a major challenge for the region. Without enhancing their participation in political and economic life, unemployment rates will continue to rise, and frustration among younger generations will persist. This requires finding effective solutions and comprehensive reforms in the political, economic, and educational sectors, with youth at the heart of these reforms through encouraging genuine political representation, supporting innovation, and promoting social justice.
Empowering youth is not solely the responsibility of the state; it is a shared effort that requires cooperation between governments, the private sector, and civil society organizations. The Arab world will not achieve real progress unless youth are integrated as active partners in building the future, especially since new generations place little trust in official projects managed by Arab governments.
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Since the Arab states gave up on liberating Palestine in the mid-1960s, various resistance movements with different ideological and intellectual perspectives have borne the burden of liberation. Consequently, youth have become more involved in these movements, more engaged with the Palestinian cause, and more aware of the reality and danger of the Zionist project. Since that time, young people's blood has been the most shed, and they have suffered the most in various prisons, especially in the prisons of the Zionist occupation.
Before the “Al-Aqsa Flood” on October 7, 2023, interest in the Palestinian cause was waning among many young Arabs. Many believed that the Zionist army was invincible and that achieving a victory over it, or even delivering painful blows, was impossible. They thought normalization with the Zionist entity was the only option for Palestinians and Arabs, and that there was no escape from submitting and accepting the existence and superiority of “Israel.”
However, the “Al-Aqsa Flood” operation had a significant impact on Palestinian and Arab youth. The events revived the Palestinian cause and brought back the tragedy of the 1948 Arab Nakba. This time, the Palestinian response was entirely different. Hundreds of thousands of Gazans rejected Zionist displacement plans, clinging to their existence in Palestine even if borders were opened and countries welcomed them.
Many opinion polls indicate that the Gaza war has had a significant impact on both Palestinian and Arab youth. In the West Bank, the majority supported the resistance project led by Hamas, while support for peaceful and normalization projects with “Israel” pursued by the Palestinian Authority, led by President Mahmoud Abbas, declined. This support for Hamas transcends party and factional commitments, favoring the resistance project.
A poll conducted on December 13, 2023, by the Palestinian Center for Policy and Survey Research showed an increase in support for Hamas in the West Bank. 85% of those surveyed supported Hamas's surprise attack on “Israel” on October 7, 2023, while only 10% supported the Palestinian Authority in the West Bank, and 7% supported Mahmoud Abbas.
This poll reveals the presence and deep-rootedness of the resistance project within the Palestinian society across all factions and forces, especially among youth. Young people believe that normalization has not improved Palestinians' living conditions or deepened their sense of security and hope for a better life. Instead, it has led to increased settlements that consume land and confine Palestinians to small, fragmented areas unsuitable for life or development, let alone establishing an independent state. Therefore, the “Al-Aqsa Flood” and the Gaza war have shifted Palestinian youth from accepting the logic of normalization to embracing the horizon of resistance, increasing youth support for the resistance project and their involvement in its current.
Anyone following the impact of the Gaza war among youth in the West Bank will notice that resistance has become a youth option. Hence, “Israeli” incursions into cities, villages, and camps in the West Bank, their siege, and the arrest and killing of young people have not ceased. The number of martyrs has exceeded 370 Palestinians, while the number of detainees has surpassed 6,200 since the “Al-Aqsa Flood.” These Zionist crimes in the West Bank undoubtedly create a strong barrier against normalization projects and a lasting memory of the brutal reality of the Zionist occupation, weakening the security apparatus of the Authority in Ramallah in suppressing youth anger against the ongoing war of genocide in Gaza.
At the Arab youth level, despite the apparent calm in Arab capitals, the “Al-Aqsa Flood” and the Gaza war have revived the Palestinian cause in the hearts of many young Arabs. This awakening has prevented those known as the “Arab Likud” or “Arab Zionists” from having a media presence opposing the resistance project or supporting “Israel.” Some normalization advocates have even expressed regret for supporting normalization with “Israel.” For instance, Dr. Osama Al-Ghazali Harb apologized, writing in the Cairo newspaper “Al-Ahram”: “I apologize for my good faith in the 'Israelis,' who have revealed a vile, criminal racist spirit. I apologize to the martyrs of Gaza, and to every Palestinian child, woman, and man... I apologize.”
In a survey conducted by the Washington Institute between November 14, 2023, and January 6, 2024, involving a thousand Saudis, 95% supported what Hamas did on October 7, 2023. 91% of them viewed the Gaza war as a victory for Palestinians despite the destruction and loss of life. 96% opposed normalization with “Israel” and called for severing diplomatic, commercial, and economic ties with “Israel.” According to this survey, Hamas enjoys unprecedented support in Egypt, Jordan, and Lebanon. For example, in Lebanon, 8 out of 10 Lebanese have a positive view of Hamas, indicating that support for Hamas and the resistance project extends beyond sectarian boundaries.
Palestinian, Arab, and Muslim youth have played a prominent role in “humanizing” the war on Gaza and transforming it into a humanitarian tragedy that necessitates intervention to stop the barbaric genocide that “Israel” is perpetrating in Gaza. The significant efforts of youth have presented a different narrative of the war on Gaza, gaining wide global acceptance and support. This has been evident in the demonstrations flooding Western capitals, narrowing the grip on the “Israeli” and Western narrative about the war on Gaza. Youth efforts have been clear on social media platforms, providing extensive information and videos, exposing the Palestinian plight and rights. For instance, over 50 million posts appeared on the “X” platform during the first two days of the war on Gaza. Despite billionaire Elon Musk's visit to “Israel,” millions of posts condemned “Israel,” prompting the platform's administration to launch a campaign to close many influential pro-Palestinian accounts after threats from the European Commission. Hashtags supporting the Palestinian cause garnered millions of views; for example, the hashtag “#Palestine” received 40.3 billion views on “TikTok,” and the hashtag “NotJustNumbers,” which tells the stories of martyrs in Gaza, achieved wide reach.
These efforts by youth on social media have significantly changed the stance toward the Palestinian cause in most Arab countries, especially among youth. This has been confirmed by “Foreign Affairs” magazine, stating that after the Gaza war, “Israel” is less popular, having changed Arab perspectives.
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Our children today, even those who are committed to their faith, face significant struggles and unprecedented societal contradictions. They are caught between the values imparted within the family circle and what they encounter outside this safe environment in the streets, schools, clubs, and universities. The conflict arises between religious education and general education, leading to an internal struggle when the nature of life forces these children to interact naturally with a society vastly different from the one they grew up in, causing psychological anxiety and a sense of alienation.
Many households of preachers find themselves puzzled by the insistence of their children on taking crooked paths after their initial uprightness. They are distressed by their children's neglect of acts of worship after being diligent in performing them. Parents keep questioning what went wrong. They believe that merely having their children with them in the same house is enough to make them replicas of themselves without adequately equipping them to face the contradictions they encounter once they leave the family home and are forced to mix with a society where concepts have become confused and Islamic values have been lost.
Foundations of Muslim Youth Identity
Identity is formed by the general culture surrounding a person, starting from the parents to the family, society, and the nation. The extent to which culture influences an individual, and the degree to which they draw their ethics, behavior, and beliefs from it, determines the depth of their identity, knowledge, awareness, and answers to existential identity questions like: Who am I? Why am I here? What is my destiny?
The first foundation of a Muslim youth's identity is the belief in the creation of humans by the hand of Allah, as affirmed by His words: “And [mention, O Muhammad], when your Lord said to the angels, ‘I will create a human being out of clay from an altered black mud. And when I have proportioned him and breathed into him of My [created] soul, then fall down to him in prostration.’” (Al-Hijr: 28-29) Furthermore, they believe that humans are honored creations of Allah, as He says, “And We have certainly honored the children of Adam and carried them on the land and sea and provided for them of the good things and preferred them over much of what We have created, with [definite] preference.” (Al-Isra: 70) They also believe that Allah appointed humans as His successor on earth, as stated: “And [mention, O Muhammad], when your Lord said to the angels, ‘Indeed, I will make upon the earth a successive authority.’” (Al-Baqarah: 30)
From all these beliefs, they also believe in the purpose for which Allah created humans, which is to worship Him, as He says, “And I did not create the jinn and mankind except to worship Me.” (Adh-Dhariyat: 56) Thus, the identity of Muslim youth is formed around the Islamic concept of human creation and the belief in the purpose for which they were created, which is to worship Allah.
Then where did all the problems of faith, represented by the phenomenon of atheism spreading in educational environments, come from? Among those who grew up in religiously conservative settings, what drove these youths to seek other identities than the one originally present, leading some of them astray during a critical stage of their lives?
Manifestations of Ideological Conflict
The entire global civilization may be experiencing an existential struggle. Western civilization has provided all its material capabilities and has tried with all its soft power to impose its identity and culture on the entire world through the globalization project, using its tools that it still exclusively controls and there is no equivalent power to stand against it, such as the Internet, social media, Hollywood products, directed literature, the capitalist economy, and other means and products of Western civilization.
On the other side, there is the East with its history and divine identity, where a nation holds an identity, culture, and one of the greatest civilizations that ever existed on earth from the beginning of creation until the Day of Judgment. Despite this, the nation has weakened, abandoned its identity, and every space it gave up was filled with intellectual emptiness, losing its leadership and status, becoming an entity without identity. This echoes the words of the Commander of the Faithful, Umar ibn Al-Khattab: “We are a people whom Allah has honored with Islam; should we seek honor through anything else, Allah will disgrace us.” Among the youth, manifestations of internal conflict have emerged, including:
Reasons for the Spread of Westernization
Amidst these intellectual tragedies faced by the Ummah, we ask: How did such influences manage to infiltrate such a heavenly society? The truth is that the Ummah has faced several severe shocks due to the weakness of the Ottoman Caliphate, the wars it fought, the fall of the Caliphate, the Sykes-Picot Agreement, and other factors, including:
Restoring Islamic Identity
The process of restoring the Ummah's original identity relies on the strong will of concerned parents, educators, preachers, and educational and religious institutions, as well as the collective will of the Muslim community to save itself from further moral and doctrinal decline.
This begins with what the Prophet Muhammad (peace be upon him) started, which is deep and focused upbringing to prepare a new generation with a pure creed. The steps to the solution begin with:
1- Family Awareness:
The family is the primary source from which a young person draws their identity and culture. Preparing families and young people about to marry comprehensively is the first step in restoring the family's role in raising the next generation. The Prophet Muhammad (peace be upon him) said, “A woman may be married for four reasons, for her property, her rank, her beauty and her religion; so get the one who is religious and prosper.” (Narrated by Al-Bukhari and Muslim).
2- Restoring the School's Role in the Educational Process:
What the school instills in early childhood can be more influential than the family. This is a call for wealthy individuals to invest in education by establishing Islamic schools that focus on moral building, in addition to various scientific subjects, so that public schools in Arab countries return to paying attention to values and morals again.
3- Restoring the Role of the Mosque:
In Islam, the mosque has a fundamental role in managing all aspects of life. In the early days of the Muslim community, prayers were performed in mosques, the affairs of the community were managed, war and conquest decisions were made, and learning sessions were held. Parents must connect their children to the mosque. Preachers should develop themselves and their messages according to contemporary needs and the needs of the youth and the Ummah. Mosque lessons should cover beliefs, worship, morals, and behavior, offering models to imitate in an easy and appealing manner. The beauty of Islam should be highlighted, such as its order, cleanliness, strength, heroism, and glory.
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Imitating others is deeply ingrained in human nature. You’ll notice that a young child mirrors the actions and gestures of their parents, like a clear mirror reflecting the behaviors of those around them.
As a person grows older, their circle of imitation expands beyond parents, relatives, and neighbors to include those they trust, respect, or see as closer to human perfection. This admiration might be due to successful experiences, perceived excellence, or even a religious obligation from the Knower of the Unseen: “Those are the ones to whom We gave the Scripture and authority and prophethood. But if the disbelievers deny it, then We have entrusted it to a people who are not therein disbelievers. Those are the ones whom Allah has guided, so from their guidance take an example.” (Al-Anam: 89-90) “There has certainly been for you in the Messenger of Allah an excellent pattern for anyone whose hope is in Allah and the Last Day and [who] remembers Allah often.” (Al-Ahzab: 21), and “There has already been for you an excellent pattern in Abraham and those with him.” (Al-Mumtahanah:4)
This desire to imitate can also come from a wish not to stray from one’s predecessors: “Rather they say, 'Indeed, we found our fathers upon a religion, and we are in their footsteps [rightly] guided.' And similarly, We did not send before you any warner into a city except that its affluent said, 'Indeed, we found our fathers upon a religion, and we are, in their footsteps, following.'” (Az-Zukhruf: 22-23)
Role models are those who embody our aspirations, proving that what we hope for is not just an illusion but something achievable. People differ in their talents and capabilities; some possess high aspirations and firm resolve, while others lack ambition and perseverance. Allah has displayed the spiritual, mental, and physical qualities of such exemplary individuals to demonstrate to humanity that reaching their status, or approaching it, is achievable through effort and dedication. Not everyone desires to be a leader; most people prefer to follow, adopting the vision and guidance of their trusted leader.
A child imitates their parents without conscious awareness, but a young adult chooses their role model with awareness and purpose, having set their goal and seeking a person who embodies that goal.
Role models are those embodying our aspirations, proving that what we hope for can be achieved.
If one seeks religion, morality, and knowledge, they will look for prominent figures in those areas. If seeking wealth, they will look to those who achieved prosperity. And if fame is the goal, they’ll find those celebrated worldwide.
Each goal has two potential paths: one legitimate, and one not. For instance, someone pursuing wealth may not care if they obtain it unlawfully; what matters is the wealth itself. They may follow others who succeeded through such means. Conversely, someone else may seek wealth but lawfully, admiring role models who attained it through hard work and lawful means.
This highlights that positive role models do exist, alongside negative ones. People are thus left to choose their path. Allah illustrates both types: regarding Prophet Ibrahimand his lineage, Allah says, “And We made them leaders guiding by Our command. And We inspired to them the doing of good deeds, establishment of prayer, and giving of zakah; and they were worshippers of Us.” (Al-Anbiya: 73) In contrast, about Pharaoh and his followers: “And We made them leaders inviting to the Fire, and on the Day of Resurrection they will not be helped.” (Al-Qasas: 41)
Young people may struggle when identifying their goals and selecting their role models. Often, they choose unwisely, following a path only to realize later it was wrong. The worst cases involve seeking religious understanding from unqualified individuals who wear the guise of reformers and preachers but, in reality, lead others astray. Some youth, motivated by a desire for religiosity, may fall into the clutches of extremists or lax individuals or those employed to corrupt people in the name of religion.
It was narrated from Hudhaifah bin Yaman that the Messenger of Allah (ﷺ) said: “There will be callers at the gates of Hell; whoever responds to them they throw them into it.” I said: “O Messenger of Allah, describe them to us.” He said: “They will be from our people, speaking our language.” (1)
That if young people have the freedom to choose role models, they may not always have access to positive figures. At times, certain figures are hidden from view, while others are promoted.
Role models can be historical or present-day figures. Youth have a wide range to choose from, including past figures whose legacies are established and known whether positive or negative. There are also contemporary figures, living among us, whose outward appearances may deceive us into thinking they are good role models, though time might reveal otherwise. In this context, Abdullah ibn Umar said, “Whoever wants to take a path should follow the path of those who have died.” (2) Abdullah ibn Mas’ud explained, “For the living are not safe from fitnah (trials).” (3)
Though historical figures may be gone, they can never truly be erased. Their stories and legacies remain in sacred and literary sources, preserved for eternity.
Allah says, “And We left for him [favorable mention] among later generations.” (As-Saaffat:78), an ayah referring to some prophets. This means: “We left him with an honorable mention in every nation, beloved by all.” (4)
The problem lies with contemporary role models, who are subject to manipulation and omission when conflicts arise between them and powerful figures in their society, including the political authorities controlling the state.
In times of political crisis, authorities may suppress dissenting voices, smear them, or even imprison them, denying them public platforms in media or literature. They elevate compliant individuals, distracting the masses from critical issues and showering these figures with wealth, effectively making them spokespersons for the regime. Such individuals may fall under the Prophet’s description, as narrated by Hudhayfah ibn al-Yaman: “The Hour will not be established until the happiest of people in the world is Luka' bin Luka'.” (5)
Though good role models never fully disappear, they increase or decrease, but at the end times, the historic role models are what’s left for people. Abdullah ibn Amr ibn al-As reported: “I heard Allah's Messenger (ﷺ) saying, "Allah does not take away the knowledge, by taking it away from (the hearts of) the people, but takes it away by the death of the religious learned men till when none of the (religious learned men) remains, people will take as their leaders ignorant persons who when consulted will give their verdict without knowledge. So they will go astray and will lead the people astray.” (6)
Thus, while some may attempt to erase good role models, they can only target the living among them. The legacy of deceased role models remains accessible for all time. This eternal legacy is a source of vitality for the Ummah, enabling it to rise from the ashes of its struggles and tribulations.
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Given the nature of our time, social media in its various forms has become a primary source in shaping the awareness of Arab youth, especially when considering statistics indicating an increase in the number of Arab internet users among teens and young adults, alongside a rise in hours spent online.
While social media plays a crucial role in keeping Arab youth informed about local and global events, this mode of knowledge presents challenges to the formation of true awareness. Genuine awareness forms through specific stages influenced by various factors, such as one’s religious, cultural, and moral affiliations, as well as their geographic and historical context. Consequently, certain ideas and issues warrant more focus and support than others.
However, social media promotes a culture of the “trend,” where every morning platforms are flooded with topics that many users engage with, investing countless hours discussing them. Often, these “trends” either deliberately or coincidentally overshadow more pressing issues in the Arab world. For instance, users may become preoccupied with debates on celebrating the Prophet’s birthday amid an ongoing genocide in a neighboring Arab country or lamenting the sale of a millionaire's restaurant while a brutal attack claims hundreds of lives in another Arab nation.
Additionally, relying primarily on social media has fostered a form of casual, fast-paced “general knowledge” that instills in young people a false sense of being informed about current events, encouraging them to share opinions on every topic, often without verification or a real understanding of the issue. This state has become a substitute for the deeper processes of comprehension and awareness, which involve deliberate research and thoughtful absorption of information—essential for real-life actions and behaviors.
One of the challenges social media poses to Arab youth awareness is its encouragement of impulsive reaction over reasoned thought. Reactions are swift emotional responses triggered by events that subside once the events lose prominence, rather than solutions to problems. This phenomenon is evident with every new trend, where users rush to respond to or comment on events without sufficient understanding, often sharing incorrect information or making swift, absolute judgments about partial or fragmented events. Such reactive behavior stems from the desire for immediate emotional engagement, which spares individuals the mental effort and accountability that come with thoughtful reflection.
Given the constrained reality in the Arab world, where the majority lack the means to influence real change, it is understandable that social media would hold such importance in terms of engagement and participation. The point here is not to discourage this interaction but to emphasize that any genuine awareness, which could lead to a transformation of ideas, values, behavior, and ultimately real change, must emerge gradually from fundamental sources of knowledge—beginning with divine revelation, historical experience, sound human knowledge, and reliable sources. True awareness empowers us to adopt a more effective approach to social media, transforming it into a constructive tool for our real, not just virtual, world.
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Where should our youth go when sectarian and ideological divisions rage across the Islamic landscape, leaving no space unmarked by clashes and competition? Where does this leave the new generation? And is there a way out of this harrowing turmoil? This is a question that elders must ask themselves before neglect and disregard consign them to oblivion. To our scholars, jurists, thinkers, leaders of thought, jurisprudence, opinion, heads of groups, parties, and institutions—we call upon you!
We no longer see any end or purpose to this artificial conflict; does anyone have a vision for a wise approach to this crisis? The youth are crying out for help, bearing the weight of lost hopes, crushed dreams, and the trampling of their ambitious visions, hurt and wounded in the wake of revolutions that promised so much. This is happening because your roles are absent!
Preserving Truth to Avoid Conflict
Do not hold the Quranic discourse accountable for your own entanglements, which have dragged an entire generation into turbulent waters. The Quran simply directed us to handle ambiguous verses by referring them back to clear and firm ones, preventing misinterpretations stemming from unstable souls: "It is He who has sent down to you, [O Muhammad], the Book; in it are verses [that are] precise - they are the foundation of the Book - and others unspecific. As for those in whose hearts is deviation [from truth], they will follow that of it which is unspecific, seeking discord and seeking an interpretation [suitable to them]. And no one knows its [true] interpretation except Allah. But those firm in knowledge say, 'We believe in it. All [of it] is from our Lord.' And no one will be reminded except those of understanding." (Aal Imran: 7)
Whether we say that the precise verses are fewer than the ambiguous, or whether we say that they comprise most of the Book, their very status as "the foundation of the Book" guarantees that the Quran, in both its clear and ambiguous verses, is guidance and clarification. Therefore, any conflict or disagreement does not arise from the Quranic message, for the Quran, as described by Allah, is "And We have sent down to you the Book as clarification for all things and guidance and mercy and good tidings for the Muslims." (An-Nahl: 89) The fault lies within us, as truth remains unblemished and untouched.
Exonerating Islamic Jurisprudence from the Roots of Conflict
As for the vast and noble Islamic jurisprudence, despite its wide scope and diverse opinions, despite the schools of thought based on this diversity, there is no room within it for division and discord. Scholars have long distinguished between mere differences of opinion and discord, favoring the former while condemning the latter.
The true challenge lies in that if one undertakes a long journey through the ocean of Islamic jurisprudence, exploring its schools, sources, and approaches, one will find nothing encouraging division or fragmentation. This is because differences in jurisprudence arise from natural and realistic factors, free from personal whims or desires. These factors include sources, temperaments, and lofty objectives. The sources of jurisprudence may lead to differing opinions on secondary rulings but not on the fundamentals of faith.
As for temperaments, the Quran acknowledges a fundamental truth about creation: "And they will not cease to differ. Except whom your Lord has given mercy, and for that He created them." (Hud: 118-119) This diversity, as Shatibi and others have noted, is by design. When differences remain within the bounds of secondary issues, they are among those upon whom Allah has bestowed mercy. And as for the purpose, it is to fulfill the comprehensive nature of Sharia, the universality of Islam, and the preservation of its teachings. This diversity in views and opinions lends the system flexibility and adaptability, as long as the differences do not encroach upon matters of faith, fixed truths, or those core beliefs known necessarily in Islam.
Effective Management of Differences as Means to Unity
Undoubtedly, managing differences stems from a cultural foundation rooted in the principles and ethics of jurisprudential disagreement. The turmoil seen in our contemporary lives and our academic, political, and advocacy activities cannot be attributed to these principles. This disturbance results from either a lack of understanding or lack of sincerity; no text or truth can produce instability.
If we sincerely believe in the above truth, it serves as the starting point for wise management of differences, achieving the essential minimum of Islamic unity and putting an end to conflicts among allies and friends. However, this belief alone is insufficient unless the foundational principles are solid and purposeful.
Principles of Managing Differences
Firstly, we must renew our faith in a way that revives sincerity and devotion, cleansing our hearts of the hidden desires and ambitions that distort public service. Public work easily becomes entangled with narrow partisan interests, which often align with personal interests connected to factions, groups, or parties. Hence, Quranic guidance consistently warns believers of selfish motives in public service. For instance, at the outset of the command to strive, when some asked about the spoils, the response was meant to curb any thought of personal gain: "They ask you, [O Muhammad], about the bounties [of war]. Say, “The [decision concerning] bounties is for Allah and the Messenger.” So fear Allah and amend that which is between you and obey Allah and His Messenger.'" (Al-Anfal: 1)
Secondly, we must draw a clear distinction between fixed principles and flexible issues, fostering a balanced approach. The mixing of fixed principles, which are beyond dispute, with flexible issues where differences are allowed is a frequent source of confusion. Here, the role of righteous scholars and experienced experts is crucial in defining and promoting knowledge of these constants, ensuring that they are not distorted by the ignorant or the malicious.
We must also establish a set of scientific and ethical guidelines for handling flexible issues, ensuring that differences enrich the landscape with diverse views that meet a wide range of needs and objectives, while also avoiding behavioral backlash from differing opinions.
Similarly, we must differentiate between rulings derived from religious texts and those relating to practical, worldly matters. Religious rulings come from the sources of Sharia, while other issues stem from reason and human experience. For this reason, the Companions were careful to distinguish between these two aspects when engaging in consultation and decision-making.
Furthermore, it is essential to separate our stance on a particular opinion from our stance on the person holding it. A view may be flawed without its proponent being a sinner. The opinion may require refutation without necessitating a breach in the relationship with its holder. Indeed, it is even accepted that a statement may be disbelief without the necessity of deeming the one who holds it as a disbeliever. This distinction prevents the aggression that often accompanies differing opinions.
Above all, there must be clear boundaries that no disagreement can cross, regardless of its severity. For instance, forming alliances with Islam's adversaries against other Muslims is a red line. Throughout history, and even in contemporary times, the Ummah has suffered numerous calamities due to this. Many who associate with Islamic activism, even jihad, continue to justify this error, making it crucial to form scholarly circles for adjudicating these matters.
In this regard, we should strive to expand the scope of shared values and emphasize respect for these commonalities. The Quran has taught us this; despite the intense conflict with the People of the Book, the Quran emphasizes shared values in multiple Surahs to pave the way for constructive dialogue.
This leads to the need for constructive dialogue, rooted in shared values, and wise consultation, with well-defined mechanisms ensuring effective performance and sound outcomes. The role of institutions and structured organizational work is to ensure that disagreements become merely one step in a decision-making process, with every opinion and perspective placed on its rightful path.
We face a major challenge and an array of threats capable of our destruction a thousand times over if we fail in this critical area. We are approaching a profound civilizational shift that will reshape the world, as the global human landscape is visibly turbulent, heralding tremendous transformations. In such times, the tools for managing differences are an urgent necessity.
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Youth in every nation are the backbone of its renaissance, the secret of its strength, and the determination of its path. They are looked upon when times get tough, and they are the hope on which nations rely. In every situation, they bear the burden of learning from past lessons, meeting present challenges, and shaping the future. This is their role in leading and rising nations, as well as in struggling nations rising from the ruins of a harsh past. In times of historical decline and the search for future paths, their burden is even greater.
Throughout history, youth have played the greatest role in facing the dangers to our Ummah and achieving its historical victories. They were the majority of the fighting force on the day of Badr, took the initiative to meet the enemy at Uhud, and led the Islamic conquests in the East and West. Muhammad ibn al-Qasim led the conquest of Sindh, Qutayba ibn Muslim led the conquest of Turkestan, and Mahmud of Ghazni was in his thirties when he began his campaign to conquer India.
Salahuddin Al-Ayyubi was 32 when he ruled Egypt and started preparing for the liberation from the Crusaders. Qutuz and Baibars were young when they won the Battle of Ain Jalut and ended the Mongol threat that endangered the world. Muhammad Al-Fatih was not yet 20 when he ascended the Ottoman throne, and two years later, he conquered Constantinople, which had resisted conquest for centuries.
Today, the afflicted peoples of our Ummah still place their hopes on their youth to lift them out of prolonged hardship and deep disgrace. Observing our current reality, one can hope for those expectations to be met. The youth of Palestine give us hope that victory is possible and near, in Allah’s will.
Conditions for Victory
An examination of history and the present necessitates certain conditions to achieve these hopes:
First: The realization in the minds and hearts of the victorious generation of the truth that our enemies have long tried to obscure: the core of our battle is our faith. The essence of victory lies in our awareness of this truth and our efforts to match it with intellectual, spiritual, and practical readiness.
We see Zionist leaders and their state affirm their distorted Torah foundations and false Talmudic premises openly and without hesitation. Western leaders also affirm them, sometimes subtly and other times plainly. Their actions clearly reflect these beliefs.
Understanding the motivations behind the enormous crimes and genocides they commit in Gaza, the West Bank, Lebanon, and throughout their history is impossible without understanding these religious myths that the state of Israel was founded upon, as warned by the French Muslim thinker Roger Garaudy. These distorted religious texts incite the killing of women and children, and are enacted by their current government led by Benjamin Netanyahu, which includes ministers who take pride in their bloody ideologies.
For instance, Amihai Eliyahu, the Minister of Heritage, called for the extermination of the people of Gaza with a nuclear bomb. National Security Minister Itamar Ben-Gvir, a follower of the infamous Rabbi Meir Kahane, founder of the extremist Kach movement, praises the perpetrator of the Hebron mosque massacre, Baruch Goldstein, calling him a “hero,” hanging his picture on his home wall. Finance Minister Bezalel Smotrich denies the existence of a Palestinian people altogether, claiming it was invented a hundred years ago to fight the Zionist project in the land of “Israel.” He arrogantly declares the necessity of expanding their state to include the “Greater Israel” as “allegedly” promised in the Torah.
Religious beliefs were not far from American presidents, who were influenced by Evangelical Zionism, which views the existence of “Israel” and its support as essential for the return of Jesus Christ.
Achieving the desired victory requires understanding the enemy’s essence, motivations, and plans, which will only happen by comprehending their religious drives and preparing suitable countermeasures; “And Allah is most knowing of your enemies. And sufficient is Allah as an ally, and sufficient is Allah as a helper.” (An-Nisa: 45)
Developing the Islamic Project
Second: Recognizing that the struggle with the enemy is a civilizational conflict between two contrasting systems. This necessitates developing our Islamic project in its political, economic, and intellectual aspects, and possessing equivalent scientific and technological foundations. We must acknowledge the enemy's scientific and technological lead and find ways to surpass it, employing it for the benefit of humanity and saving the world from a bleak future controlled by an aggressive system that holds the means to its destruction with its nuclear capabilities. These capabilities are already threatening the world, coupled with their hostility towards others and readiness to annihilate them to maintain their superiority and dominance.
This also entails the necessity of generational solidarity in the path of change; youth and elders must unite. The discord and disconnect between generations must end, and youth must not be incited to belittle the first generation of dawah carriers and path pioneers. Achieving the enemy's goal of creating a generation disconnected from its history, rich with lessons and experiences, must be avoided.
Our history is filled with exemplary elderly leaders who led the Ummah to glory and pride. The devil did not sow discord regarding their status and significant roles. Starting with the two sheikhs, Abu Bakr and Umar, and passing through Musa bin Nusayr, who was nearing eighty when he completed the conquest of Africa and moved towards Andalusia. Yusuf bin Tashfin was also nearing eighty when he won the Battle of Zallaqa, saving Andalusia in 479 AH. He continued his honorable jihad until he was nearly a hundred at his death. This legacy extends to Ahmad Yassin and others.
Third: The advocacy role of the best Ummah brought forth for mankind is immense. It is not confined to a specific group or team, nor can it be carried solely by a leading elite without the support of the masses and the supportive popular bases. Youth groups alone cannot bear it without the guidance of elders and teachers hardened by life, shaped by experiences, and driven by the ambition to pass on this legacy to promising young generations. This must be done in a spirit that embodies the blessed divine revelation, the righteous prophetic method, and the ongoing divine and universal laws.
Fourth: The path to reviving the Ummah requires strong hands and insightful vision from those troubled by the remembrance of the Hereafter, dedicating their efforts to Allah; “And remember Our servants, Abraham, Isaac, and Jacob—those of strength and [religious] vision. Indeed, We chose them for an exclusive quality: remembrance of the home [of the Hereafter].” (Sad: 45-46) This path is paved through the deceit of night and day and the forces of arrogance and oppression, yet it is the only path to salvation in this world from the evil machinations of enemies we have seen firsthand, and salvation in the Hereafter from Allah's judgment, who entrusted us with His religion and the legacy of His Prophet; “And We had already destroyed generations before you when they wronged, and their messengers had come to them with clear proofs, but they were not to believe. Thus do We recompense the criminal people. Then We made you successors in the land after them so that We may observe how you will do.” (Yunus: 13-14)
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The world today is experiencing rapid and unprecedented changes in all fields, from technology to the economy and politics. Never before has the world witnessed such a diverse range of generations living, working, and interacting together. While this diversity was considered natural in the past, it now presents a significant challenge, with the gap between generations widening day by day.
The generation gap refers to a set of differences in values, interests, expectations, and behaviors between successive generations. These differences often arise due to cultural, social, and technological changes over time, which affect each generation differently.
Today’s Generations
Causes of the Generation Gap
Technological Development: One of the primary causes of the generation gap is technological advancement. Younger generations have never known a world without technology and are more adept at using modern tools efficiently. This greatly influences their thinking and interaction with the world. Conversely, older generations often struggle with technology, leading to a significant gap that affects all aspects of daily life.
Social and Economic Changes: Recent years have witnessed major social and economic changes impacting all generations. With globalization and market expansion, lifestyle and social patterns have shifted. While older generations relied on stable, government jobs, today's youth lean more towards independence and freelance work. Wars, famines, and economic crises have also shaped the younger generation's approach to their surroundings.
Cultural and Value Changes: Many values have changed from previous years, with Arab and Islamic societies influenced by waves of Western cultural invasion, leading to a radical shift in daily values and beliefs such as marriage, gender mixing, and openness. New concepts have emerged and are embraced by younger generations, once completely rejected by their predecessors, such as homosexuality, gender freedom, and feminism, causing a significant gap due to the irreligiosity of the new generations.
Educational Gap: There is a significant difference in education levels between generations due to the diversity of learning sources and technological advancement. Newer generations receive more modern and developed education, increasing their chances of securing suitable, well-paying jobs. In contrast, older generations struggle to adapt and benefit from technology, relying solely on their scientific and practical experience, which surpasses that of the youth. This has led to a considerable gap, with younger generations feeling more knowledgeable, intelligent, and superior, and the older generations feeling disrespected and frustrated by their inability to keep up.
How Islam Bridged the Generation Gap
The Prophet Muhammad ﷺ said, “Anyone who does not show mercy to our children nor acknowledge the right of our old people is not one of us.” (Sahih al-Albani) Although the generation gap has existed since ancient times, Islam has successfully addressed and managed it. This hadith serves as a comprehensive and straightforward constitution outlining the boundaries of interaction between different generations.
Addressing the Gap in Quranic Stories
The Quranic stories present a unique model of generational interaction in a healthy and productive way:
The Story of Prophet Ibrahim and His Son Ismail in Building the Kaaba: The Quran narrates how Prophet Ibrahim and his son Ismail cooperated in building the Kaaba, showcasing a wonderful scene of mercy, respect, and collaboration between two different generation. Allah says, “And [mention] when Abraham was raising the foundations of the House and [with him] Ishmael, [saying], 'Our Lord, accept [this] from us. Indeed, You are the Hearing, the Knowing. Our Lord, and make us Muslims [in submission] to You and [raise] from our descendants a Muslim nation [in submission] to You. And show us our rites and accept our repentance. Indeed, You are the Accepting of repentance, the Merciful. Our Lord, and send among them a messenger from themselves who will recite to them Your verses and teach them the Book and wisdom and purify them. Indeed, You are the Exalted in Might, the Wise.'” (Al-Baqarah: 127-129)
The Story of Prophet Yusuf and His Father Yaqub: Prophet Yaqub set an example of a loving father who attentively listens to his son and offers advice and guidance. “When Joseph said to his father, 'O my father, indeed I have seen [in a dream] eleven stars and the sun and the moon; I saw them prostrating to me.' He said, 'O my son, do not relate your vision to your brothers or they will contrive against you a plan. Indeed, Satan is to man a manifest enemy.'” (Yusuf: 4-5)
The Story of Musa's Mother and Her Daughter: We also have the story of Musa's mother who trusted her daughter with a very dangerous mission to follow the news of Musa when he was an infant in Pharaoh's palace. “And she said to his sister, 'Follow him'; so she watched him from a distance while they perceived not. And We had prevented from him [all] wet nurses before, so she said, 'Shall I direct you to a household that will be responsible for him for you while they are to him [for his upbringing] sincere?'.” (Al-Qasas: 11-12)
The Prophet's ﷺ Approach in Dealing with Different Generations
With Elders
Islam encourages respect and reverence for the elderly. The Prophet ﷺ said, “Glorifying Allah involves showing honour to a grey-haired Muslim and to one who can expound the Qur'an, but not to one who acts extravagantly regarding it, or turns away from it, and showing honour to a just ruler.” (Sunan Abi Dawud)
Umar ibn al-Khattab - may Allah be pleased with him - used to go out at night, and Talha saw him. Umar entered a house and then another. In the morning, Talha went to that house and found a blind, immobile old woman. He asked her, “What does this man do for you?" She replied, "He has been visiting me for such and such time, bringing me what benefits me and removing harm from me.” (Hilyat al-Awliya’ wa Tabaqat al-Asfiya’ by Al-Asfahani).
With Children
The Prophet ﷺ was a role model in dealing with children with kindness and gentleness, never belittling their interests or being harsh with them. Anas b. Malik reported that Allah's Messenger (ﷺ) had the sublimest character among mankind. I had a brother who was called Abu 'Umair. I think he was weaned. When Allah's Messenger (may peace he upon him) came to our house he saw him, and said: Abu 'Umair, what has the sparrow done? He (Anas) said that he had been playing with that. (Sahih Muslim)
With Youth
The Prophet ﷺ balanced the spiritual and physical education of the youth, making sure that none surpasses the other. Anas ibn Malik reported: Three people came to the Prophet’s wives and asked how the Prophet conducted his worship. When they were told about it they seemed to consider it little and said, “What a difference there is between us and the Prophet whose former and latter sins have been forgiven him by God!” One of them said, “As for me, I will always pray during the night.” Another said, “I will fast during the daytime and not break my fast.” The other said, “I will have nothing to do with women and will never marry.” Then the Prophet came to them and said, “Are you the people who said such and such? By God, I am the one of you who fears and reverences God most, yet I fast and I break my fast; I pray and I sleep; and I marry women. He who is displeased with my sunna has nothing to do with me.” (Sahih Al-Bukhari and Muslim) This hadith demonstrates the Prophet's ﷺ balance between worship and life needs.
The Prophet ﷺ also took into account the psychological needs of the youth, never being harsh with them. Abu Umamah reported: A young man came to the Prophet, peace and blessings be upon him, and he said, “O Messenger of Allah, give me permission to commit adultery.” The people turned to rebuke him, saying, “Quiet! Quiet!” The Prophet said, “Come here.” The young man came close and he told him to sit down. The Prophet said, “Would you like that for your mother?” The man said, “No, by Allah, may I be sacrificed for you.” The Prophet said, “Neither would people like it for their mothers. Would you like that for your daughter?” The man said, “No, by Allah, may I be sacrificed for you.” The Prophet said, “Neither would people like it for their daughters. Would you like that for your sister?” The man said, “No, by Allah, may I be sacrificed for you.” The Prophet said, “Neither would people like it for their sisters. Would you like that for your aunts?” The man said, “No, by Allah, may I be sacrificed for you.” The Prophet said, “Neither would people like it for their aunts.” Then, the Prophet placed his hand on him and he said, “O Allah, forgive his sins, purify his heart, and guard his chastity.” (Narrated by Ahmad)
The Prophet ﷺ always praised the good qualities of the youth, enhancing their self-confidence and motivating them to develop themselves. An example of this is his praise for Ashaj Abdul Qais, may Allah be pleased with him, by saying, “Indeed there are two traits in you that Allah loves: Forbearance, and deliberateness.” (Narrated by Abu Dawood)
The Prophet ﷺ also utilized the energies of the youth, entrusting them with leadership positions based on their competence and capabilities. After the conquest of Mecca, he appointed ‘Attab bin Usayd, may Allah be pleased with him, who was only twenty-one years old, as the governor of Mecca when he ﷺ had to leave with his army. Similarly, he appointed Usama bin Zaid, may Allah be pleased with him, who was under twenty years old, as the leader of an army that included prominent companions such as Abu Bakr Al-Siddiq and Umar ibn Al-Khattab, may Allah be pleased with them.
Thus, it becomes clear how Islam addressed the generation gap through the practical examples of the Prophet ﷺ and the Quran. Mutual understanding, respect, and balanced upbringing are the fundamental principles that should govern the relationship between different generations.
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More than 210 million people worldwide are affected by addiction annually, according to the World Health Organization. The organization's statistics also reveal that 15.3 million people suffer from diseases due to drug abuse, and nearly 200,000 of them die each year.
However, the United Nations Office on Drugs and Crime (UNODC) presents alarming figures showing that around 275 million people used drugs at least once globally in 2016, with 450,000 people dying as a result. The International Narcotics Control Board (INCB) indicates that the percentage of drug addicts in the Arab world ranges between 7-10%, with most addicts being young people.
For example, the number of drug users in Egypt has risen to about 10% of the population, in Sudan, there are 6 million addicts, in Algeria over 300,000, a similar rate in Tunisia, while in Saudi Arabia there are 200,000, in Kuwait over 40,000, in Lebanon 24,000, and in Oman 5,000 addicts, according to statistics from international, governmental, and non-governmental organizations.
The true crisis lies in the lack of accurate statistics on the number of addicts in the Arab world, as the announced figures are based on the number of people arrested for drug use, which does not reflect the real number; because the families of addicts remain socially embarrassed to report their children, which means the numbers and estimates are likely more.
Interestingly, the American Institute “NIDA” recorded that about 70% of addicts started using drugs in their teenage years, which means we are facing a bigger problem that goes beyond the boundaries and causes of the disease; the roots of this problem run deep in the soil of spiritual emptiness that our youth suffer from. How can we blame a young person who has not tasted the sweetness of faith and has not felt the pleasure of closeness to Allah for seeking refuge in the dark world of drugs, even if it is illusory?
The real reason behind the psychological distress that drives many to the abyss of addiction is the distance from the path of Allah, while some who claim modernity and progress promote the idea that drug use is a form of personal freedom, and some even call for its legal allowance, as some European countries do.
Here, we ask: What kind of freedom makes a person a prisoner to a chemical substance that takes away his mind and will? When were the laws of Europe and America the reference for the Islamic Ummah?! Islam, with its divine methodology, forbade everything that affects the mind, considering that preserving it is one of the five objectives of Sharia; hence the Prophet ﷺ said, “Every intoxicant is prohibited.” (Narrated by Muslim)
Moreover, how many movies or TV series depict drug use as a sign of sophistication and civilization! How many electronic platforms have facilitated the connection between dealers and victims! Therefore, as Muslim societies, we must stand united against this cultural invasion that targets our values and morals.
The harsh social and economic realities in many Arab and Islamic countries provide fertile ground for some youth to escape their reality through drug use or in search of quick solutions to their psychological and social problems, which cannot be treated merely by providing material treatment programs that address the symptoms and ignore the root cause.
We cannot effectively combat addiction among our youth without addressing the psychological and social sources that drive them to escape to drugs and intoxicants, which is linked to improving these youths' lives in all their relationship networks, especially their relationship with their God, which is the only way to face life's pressures and difficulties instead of escaping them.
This meaning is pointed out in the Quran when describing the prayer, which is not just physical movements but a connection of the soul with its Creator, giving the believer tranquility and peace; “Those who have believed and whose hearts are assured by the remembrance of Allah. Unquestionably, by the remembrance of Allah hearts are assured.” (Ar-Ra'd: 28) If we taught our youth their acts of worship with this understanding, none of them would find spiritual emptiness.
Addiction has unfortunately turned into a plague in many Islamic countries, and there is no way to escape it merely by enacting strict laws, important as they are. The solution lies in rebuilding the youth from within, reconciling them with the values of their religion, and opening new horizons for them for work, creativity, and marriage.
Where is the role of the Muslim family in protecting their children? Where is that faith-based upbringing that instills in our children the religious and moral deterrent? The Prophet ﷺ warned us against neglecting this great duty by saying: “All of you are guardians and are responsible for your wards.” (Agreed upon)
A comprehensive approach in dealing with addiction cases, combining medical and psychological treatment on one hand, and spiritual and moral rehabilitation on the other, is the way to rescue the body of our nation from this cancer. An addict is not just a body needing treatment, but a human being with a soul that needs the nourishment of faith and the warmth of mercy.
Let us start a campaign to combat the cancer of addiction based on this principle, for the path to happiness in both worlds does not pass through the illusions of drugs, but through faith in Allah and righteous deeds, and feeling the sweetness of closeness to the Creator of the soul.
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It draws the attention of our young people today, who are dazzled by the quick wealth accumulated by some trivial individuals on social media. This wealth promote moral bankruptcy and cultural and spiritual emptiness among the world's populations, paving the way for future control over them. The People's Republic of China is diligently working towards global leadership and has plans to undermine the awareness of people sitting on vast, untapped resources. These people must be numbed so that their resources can be easily seized. A platform like TikTok, created by China, serves this purpose cunningly and effectively. It is no coincidence that the United States has banned its use on American soil.
The Philosophy of Making a Living
You are not free to earn money by any means available; it is your sustenance that Allah has decreed for you and guaranteed its delivery to you. All you, as a Muslim, must do is strive and seek it gracefully, as the Prophet Muhammad (peace be upon him) stated. This means to seek one's sustenance from permissible sources in a beautiful manner, with piety and optimism. This transforms the worry and effort of earning a living into an enjoyable activity akin to entertainment. This has been the practice of Muslim societies through the ages and continues to be the natural disposition in many areas that have remained pure and uncorrupted.
Today, some people exhibit a reckless defiance against Allah, not considering the consequences. They feel secure from His plans and His severe punishment. They have not given Allah His due regard and do not fear His wrath.
Earning abundant wealth through trivial talk and blatant moral degradation in public to gain fame and money from people is not limited to socially on individuals with weak conscious, who have chosen to waste their lives on fleeting pleasures without considering their permissibility. Influential entities in Algeria, who enjoy authority, have shown us that they oversee these destructive activities without feeling any sense of responsibility or guilt for the dire consequences these adventures have on the system of values prevailing within our Muslim societies, both immediately and in the long term.
Other Consequences
In this context, a couple from Kabylia region celebrated a holiday, a while ago, in a foreign style with a cake and candles. They lit the candles with a 1,000 dinar note, symbolizing their complaint about the high cost of living and the fall of the dinar value. Perhaps they intended to convey a political message through the video they posted about the celebration, but they misrepresented themselves with this disgraceful act.
What concerns us about this incident is that the authorities swiftly arrested the couple and brought them to justice for committing the crime of insulting national symbols—the currency. In contrast, the Algerian authorities did not take such strict measures against another recent incident of equal severity, which went viral on social media. This involved unknown individuals and well-known television personalities who glorify the military ruler in Algeria. They gathered one day in a district to hold a “fantasy” wedding for a well-known village fool, making him famous for being a comedian!
What struck me about this wedding is that these individuals, who entered the city from various parts of the country, were no less foolish than their friend. Their antics were widely shared on the infamous platform, saying that some representatives of “civil society” attended this party. This ridiculous spectacle, which could harm society, involved throwing handfuls of banknotes at the groom and tying 2,000 dinar notes, the largest currency issued by the Algerian bank since independence, to his henna-stained fingers. This currency bears the image of the six martyrs who initiated the glorious liberation revolution.
The incident passed as if nothing had happened, or as if the play was staged in the heart of Algeria to send a message to the new generation that immorality, recklessness, and frivolity are paths to “success”—a success measured by material wealth gathered without proper economic efforts. It is noteworthy that this young man, mocked for his ugly appearance and obscene speech, was a social outcast, an alcoholic, and was often rejected by his family. His story gained traction after repeated visits by Gendarmerie Nationale to his home for unofficial reasons. Subsequently, individuals, possibly motivated by entertainment and financial gain on TikTok, promoted him. However, these incidents took on an organized character, protected from legal pursuit despite the public violations, punishable by law.
These are not isolated incidents, but governors appointed by presidential decrees in significant administrative regions of western Algeria also show a keen interest in trivialities during their professional duties. They deliberately issue video clips showing themselves with clueless individuals, distinguished by something that raise strangeness laughter, to present them as role models or at least to occupy people's attention on social media with meaningless content.
Religious Deception
Trivialities are not limited to harming national symbols, which authorities must protect. Even religion, the holiest of holies for Algerians, is not spared. Obsessing over minor contentious issues and advocating for their implementation, even if they are disliked or forbidden, has become a hallmark of a group of people vainly trying to alter fundamental principles. They resort to raising peripheral issues that distinguish them within society, engaging some, repelling others, and making others mock what they see and hear.
There are justified suspicions about these people, as their trivialities raise objective questions. Their skepticism about the legitimacy of the legal profession and judicial officers, without pointing fingers at judges who form the backbone of the judicial system to avoid conflict with those in power, is strange. The excessive spreading of legs in prayer rows in a repugnant manner, while being lenient in inciting discord and hatred among their compatriots under the guise of correcting beliefs, is a stark contradiction in this methodology.
Their sharp tongues, stingy with goodness, revealed their true intentions when their hypocrisy, revealing their true nature, insulted the martyr Ismail Haniyeh after his assassination in Tehran, saying, “Good riddance.” By supporting the Zionists and Arab traitor rulers, they demonstrated their disdain for the nation's religious heritage. What is astonishing is that they do not urge Muslims to defend Al-Aqsa Mosque or call the nation to mobilize or denounce the Zionist occupiers!
The saying “every cloud has a silver lining” fits here. These extremist behaviors under the banner of “Salafism” opened the door for scholars and students to review the historical development of Islamic jurisprudence, especially during the period when Muhammad bin Abdul-Wahhab (1115-1206 AH / 1703-1792 AD) appeared. The astute among them concluded that Wahhabism, if generously judged, was merely a reform movement in its time and place, and its later offshoots are not related to it. Rather, “political Wahhabism” is a British trademark, with suspicious manifestations in Saudi Arabia, Yemen, and Libya to this day. These offshoots, once in power, did not hesitate to wield swords against Muslims in various regions. This is another tragic story in the nation's life that deserves a thorough examination.
Disproportionate Comparison
To compare despite the difference in scale, the CIA wanted Americans to be preoccupied with UFOs and to turn them into a source of scientific, literary, and cinematic fantasy while the space race was at its peak during the Cold War. The United States was secretly developing its missile program, and people had to see flying ghosts to let their imagination run wild. History has preserved an admirable story about the Nazi Werner von Braun (1912-1977), who was under the watchful eye of the U.S. Army after Germany's defeat in World War II. The Americans soon realized they had captured a rare war prize, valuing him for his deep knowledge of space physics, which Adolf Hitler had relied on in his war. The United States capitalized on this mind, granting him citizenship and all necessary resources to benefit from his expertise in missile production, achieving their desired results. He died, known as the father of missile technology in the greatest country in contemporary history.
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In a world overflowing with triviality and gradually losing the value of time, it has become a significant challenge for Arab and Muslim youth to manage their time and balance their daily tasks amidst distractions and diversions targeting their time above all else. It is not only their values and principles that are being attacked but their time—the most precious asset they own and can offer to their Ummah if spent wisely.
So, how can we balance and utilize time better? How did Muslim scholars become the most diligent in valuing their time? How can our youth today manage their time and achieve accomplishments? This and more are covered in this report by “Al-Mujtama.”
Time management is one of the most critical skills that a person must acquire to succeed in all aspects of life. By effectively organizing time, many benefits can be achieved, including increased productivity and accomplishment, reduced stress and anxiety, improved focus, and achieving balance in life. Moreover, proper time planning can transition you from a chaotic to an organized and practical life.
The most significant factor that makes young people value their time and lives is having a goal in life. After that, they can set their priorities and organize their daily activities, as a large part of success lies in daily planning.
Then comes the role of monitoring and comparing what was planned with what was executed to identify deviations, benefit from positives, and avoid negatives. Old bad habits quickly return when some young people face difficulties in implementing the daily plan. Therefore, reviewing and being patient with the change is essential.
Muslims and Time
Any nation that values time has risen and become strong, while any nation that has wasted time has weakened and been crushed by the strong. This was the case for the Islamic Ummah and its people, as Islam greatly values time. The Prophet Muhammad (peace be upon him) said, “Take advantage of five things before five: your youth before old age, your health before illness, your wealth before poverty, your free time before being occupied, and your life before death.”
The Caliph Umar ibn al-Khattab was very keen on utilizing his time in serving Islam and Muslims. He slept little and divided the night into three parts: one for sleeping, one for prayer and worship, and one for managing the affairs of Muslims. He said, “If I slept during the day I would have neglected the people, and if I slept during the night I would have neglected myself. How can I sleep when I have these two concerns?!”
The companion Abdullah ibn Masud was known for his diligence in utilizing his time in obedience to Allah. He said, “I have never regretted anything more than a day that ended, my life span decreased, and my deeds did not increase.”
It is narrated that Imam al-Shafi'i was extremely diligent with his time. He always carried writing tools with him, and if he heard something new and did not find something to write on, he would write on his sleeve or the palm of his hand, fearing that he might forget or waste time. He said, “I accompanied the Sufis and did not benefit from them except for two sayings: 'Time is a sword, if you do not cut it, it will cut you,' and 'Yourself, if you do not occupy it with truth, it will occupy you with falsehood.'”
Ibn al-Jawzi complained about the many visitors who wasted his time. He said, “I then prepared tasks that do not prevent conversation but are necessary, so as not to waste time. I postponed cutting paper, sharpening pens, and bundling notebooks for visiting times so that no time would be wasted.”
Sheikh al-Islam Ibn Taymiyyah was so keen on his time that if he wanted to enter the bathroom, he would tell his grandson or one of his sons to read a book aloud so that he could hear it. It is said that he wrote his famous book “Zad al-Ma'ad” while traveling for Hajj on his mount.
Youth Models
Among the youth of our Ummah, many spend their time in what benefits them and try to manage their time to achieve accomplishments despite the challenges and distractions of the era. “Al-Mujtama” spoke with some distinguished young people who manage to achieve and manage their time despite the challenges, to learn the secret of their success in time management.
Ibrahim Houari, a consultant in project establishment and management and the director of the “Omran” platform, tells us, “A successful day for me starts with the Fajr prayer in congregation, followed by starting my daily activities immediately after the prayer. The best time for work and accomplishment is from dawn until the forenoon, so I organize all tasks before the morning work meeting. As the Prophet Muhammad (peace be upon him) said, 'Blessed my Ummah in its early mornings.'”
He pointed out that what helps him most in managing his day is linking tasks to prayer times and dividing the day into four phases: individual work from dawn to forenoon, then team meetings from forenoon to Dhuhr, from Dhuhr to Asr for calls and client relations, and from Asr to Maghrib for social relations outside professional work. He added, “The best thing is to sleep immediately after Isha prayer because every hour of staying up late affects the next day.”
Houari also said that what helps him organize his time is trying to complete specific tasks before the prayer time begins. There is ample time from Fajr to Dhuhr without obligatory prayers, which is part of the wisdom in the division of prayer times in Islam.
Mohamed Ali, the president of the Egyptian Students Union at the University of Technology Malaysia (UTM) in 2022, believes there is no fixed model for a day. However, there are fixed pillars in the day that should not be overlooked, such as the five daily prayers, adhkar (remembrance of Allah), exercise, and maintaining family ties. Then, daily variable tasks are scheduled, such as attending university, studying a specific subject, or completing certain tasks.
He said that what has helped him manage his time the most is realizing the greatness of his goals. “A person feels ashamed to waste time if they have significant goals. But if the goals are small and require little time, a person won’t mind wasting the rest of their time.”
Ali added, “What has also helped me make good use of my time is involving myself in activities that serve my goals and committing to them. This compels a person to accomplish tasks regardless of their inclination. For instance, someone who wants to exercise should join a gym to compel themselves to commit. Likewise, a student who engages in student activities becomes responsible and is compelled to complete their tasks.”
He pointed out that what disrupts his daily management the most is failing to determine the tasks that need to be accomplished during the day or if less important tasks replace important ones. Therefore, understanding the priorities is essential for organizing tasks.
Ali advises young people to value their time and not waste it cheaply because it is their most valuable asset. They should also feel accountable for their time before Allah.
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Many parents ask the question titled in the article, in light of the increasing magical influence of the “media” on the minds and souls of their children compared to a religious discourse that many of their children do not find attractive, which causes parents to fear for the future of their beloved children.
Raising children to understand and live by religion is not only part of traditional home education but also the responsibility of the platforms of dawah in building a society based on values. These platforms represent the voice of Islam to children whose minds and souls are still developing. This is where the current situation becomes dangerous. With the increasing challenges facing children in today's world, the religious discourse directed at them needs careful study that takes into account their psychological and cognitive development and adopts modern tools that help make religious values and concepts appealing to them.
To understand how to present an attractive religious discourse to children, it is necessary to understand their psychological and cognitive development at different stages, which is detailed in Jean Piaget's theory, one of the most important theories in psychology.
According to the theory, children in early childhood begin with “symbolic thinking,” where they learn through stories and images. This means that presenting religious concepts should be done in a storytelling and visual manner that attracts their attention and helps them understand religious symbols. Quranic stories, especially the stories of the prophets, are ideal content for children's religious upbringing, only if they are presented in a simple, illustrated manner without personifying the prophets according to Islamic Sharia.
This method can contribute to developing a spiritual connection in our children. Contemporary psychological studies confirm that children at this stage need imaginative and cognitive stimulation to interact with the world around them. Therefore, religious discourse should be presented to children through engaging Quranic stories that reinforce religious values in their hearts and link daily behaviors to faith concepts.
This means that presenting the religious message to our children should avoid the traditional rote learning method that relies on presenting information without interaction. This is based on the nature of children's psychological composition, let alone when the opposite values and message of religion are presented by the devils of humanity in the most appealing form!
Utilizing Images
For example, if we combine educational games and electronic applications and teach children how to perform Wudu’ or pray in an engaging way, we will be utilizing images correctly for building their faith. Here, contemporary media such as cartoons or illustrated stories can be beneficial.
Additionally, religious values can be reinforced through training children in various daily life activities that simulate real-life situations they observe in their parents' lives. For instance, when a parent goes out with the child to participate in a simple charitable act, like giving money to the poor, and repeats the prophetic saying: “The wealth of a man will not diminish by Sadaqah (charity).” (Narrated by Muslim), it has a profound impact on the child.
By combining images and stories interactively, we fully employ these tools to serve the religious message, which children find attractive and enjoyable, unlike the traditional rote learning method that is burdensome for adults, let alone children.
From this standpoint, family activities are the primary factor in a child's religious upbringing, as it is the first environment where they are exposed to values. If the child sees their parents committed to praying and encouraging them through interactive storytelling, the child will feel a sense of belonging to the religion as a source of joy and beauty in life, as mentioned in the prophetic saying: “O Bilal, give us comfort by it.” (Narrated by Abu Dawood)
Educational institutions, whether schools or educational centers, also have a complementary and important role. They should adopt educational curricula that combine academic and moral education and ensure that religious concepts are part of daily education, not just separate lessons.
Using games, cartoons, competitions, and trips within schools can effectively motivate children to understand and memorize parts of the Quran or some prophetic hadiths, thereby strengthening their connection to religion as a fundamental part of their identity rather than a duty to be fulfilled.
The challenges facing children today require innovative solutions to enhance the religious discourse directed at them, especially given the excessive exposure to global media that often promotes concepts contrary to Islamic values.
To overcome this problem, parents play a crucial role in determining the content their children are exposed to, along with the shared responsibility of content providers to offer suitable religious content for children through applications like “Muslim Kids TV” and others that combine education and entertainment.
Furthermore, educational institutions in our countries must adopt comprehensive religious curricula that align with technological advancements, using modern tools such as virtual reality applications that help children experience rituals like Hajj or Umrah interactively, thereby deepening their understanding of these rituals.
Renewing religious discourse for children has become a necessity, not only by updating the language but through a comprehensive development process based on a deep understanding of children's cognitive and psychological needs, ensuring that religion is a natural part of a child's daily life by strengthening the relationship between the teachings of the Quran and daily experiences.
However, preparing a successful religious discourse for children requires the participation of all parties, starting with the family, which is the first to impart religious values, passing through educational institutions that should provide appropriate curricula, and reaching media outlets that must offer attractive and beneficial content that enhances the correct understanding of religion. Therefore, the issue requires intervention at the state level—so who will rise and carry this responsibility in its new form?
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Social media has swept across the world, and youth are now constantly connected to these platforms, becoming a primary target and a key component of the discourse they produce. These platforms have played a significant role in shaping identities and changing convictions. However, these media are not products of the Muslim environment, nor did Muslims create them; thus, they have become important tools controlled by others. They can now analyze people's interests and present content that aligns with their perceived personality.
At the same time, young people sometimes find in religious discourse a significant avenue for addressing spiritual voids and fulfilling their spiritual needs. It may provide answers to their existential questions, yet at the same time, they are faced with a multitude of religious sources, leaving them confused and unable to distinguish between right and wrong. Others may feel that religious discourse hinders their freedom or conflicts with their aspirations.
As a result, youth are divided regarding religious discourse: either rejecting it entirely because they see it as an obstacle to their goals, or accepting it based on their personal efforts or relying on unqualified sources. This creates a significant crisis between what they hear, see, and experience in reality.
Religious Discourse Must Be in a Language Closest to the Understanding of Youth, Focusing on High Ideals in Their Realistic Form
Concepts like victory, presented by unqualified preachers, often clash with reality. They offer an incomplete or false idea of victory, which conflicts with reality, leading to either total rejection of the discourse or acceptance of the incomplete version, which is then challenged by a layperson's question that the preacher cannot answer, such as: "Where is the victory that you portrayed?"
Issues like the status of the companions (Sahaba) are also presented by preachers in a way that raises questions in the minds of young people. They present the companions as angelic figures, leaving them puzzled with inevitable questions: If they were so angelic, why did they fight and quarrel among themselves?
Moreover, important concepts related to situations and ranks have been presented to young people in a way that stifles creativity, promotes defeatism, and instills procrastination. As Majid al-Kilani says: "The meaning of reliance on Allah has been turned into justification for randomness, chaos, lack of preparation, and wasting time and resources, whereas it used to mean perseverance and determination after completing preparations and planning.
The meaning of submission to divine will has also changed, becoming a justification for laziness and lack of achievement, whereas it used to mean determination in facing difficulties and disregard for all obstacles except Allah's will" (1).
At the same time, some preachers have narrowed the concept of righteous deeds, limiting it to religious activities, even though the Sharia emphasizes its broad scope, and there are practical examples of this, such as the story of the woman who gave water to a dog, or the one who suggested digging a trench, or changing the battlefield location at Badr, or the one who thwarted the enemies at the Battle of the Trench. Righteous deeds encompass judicial, military, social, and educational work.
Religious Discourse Must Be Contemporary and Relevant to the Reality of Youth, Offering them Psychological and Spiritual Support and Helping them Deal with Challenges They Face in Life
Majid al-Kilani says: "Righteous deeds are the practical translation and full application of the relationships defined by Islamic educational philosophy between the Islamic individual on one hand, and Allah, the universe, humanity, life, and the Hereafter on the other" (2). This broad concept should not allow preachers to justify someone leaving medical studies to study jurisprudence, claiming that jurisprudence is closer to Allah and has greater rewards.
Key Duties
Religious discourse must be in a language closer to the understanding of youth, focusing on presenting high ideals in their realistic form. When speaking of the companions, they should be presented in a way that acknowledges their humanity, without placing them in the ranks of angels or prophets.
The discourse should not promote the idea of a servant waiting for immediate reward, such as linking prayer to increased provision, without explaining the broader concept of provision or the type of prayer that necessitates it. Or by saying: "Whoever does this will get that" or "Whoever performs this act will find this outcome."
Worship is fundamentally based on complete submission to Allah and seeking the reward in the Hereafter. The effectiveness of worship lies in its reward in the Hereafter, not in its immediate reward in this world.
Religious discourse should reinforce the three fundamental existential questions: Where did we come from? Why are we here? Where are we going? These are the questions that Western philosophies, which dominate the Western mind, have struggled with, as they attempt to alter human nature in the name of fixed freedoms and rights.
The concept of Sunnah should also be expanded to include mercy, kindness, honor, generosity, courage, modesty, gentleness, compassion, connection, and charity. The Sunnah should not be limited to a set of external actions, with debates over their importance and the ruling on praying behind someone who neglects them. This is wasted effort that consumes energy without any real benefit.
Educational Institutions Should Refine and Moderate Religiosity in the Minds of Youth Through Their Teachers if the Curricula Fail
Religious discourse must be contemporary and relevant to the reality of youth, providing them with psychological and spiritual support and helping them deal with the challenges they face in life.
Religious discourse must be built on dialogue and interaction with young people, understanding them, and welcoming the beneficial aspects of their ideas.
Thus, we can say that the falsification and simplification of young minds, leading them to waste their lives in confusion, is due to the retreat of religious discourse, its weakness, or the lack of awareness among those responsible for it, or their immersion in promises of quick religiosity that may not bear immediate results. This makes the harm of the discourse on youth greater than the harm of the means that attempt to neutralize them religiously or turn them away from religion entirely.
Necessary Roles
Youth are a vital segment of society, and the shaping of their religious consciousness cannot be left to unqualified preachers alone. Families must also play a role in guiding them to what is beneficial, without adopting an authoritarian or harsh approach that leads to rejection.
We must also highlight the role of religious institutions, which should reach out to young people and not be discouraged by those who say that the sick come to the doctor, and the doctor does not go to the sick. The role of institutions is to knock on the doors of youth and reach them from every window, as established religious institutions in the Ummah hold the closest image of truth and are most worthy of being followed.
Educational institutions must refine and moderate religiosity in the minds of youth, even through their teachers if the curricula fail to do so.
In the end, it is important that these roles are carried out with patience and wisdom in discourse, guidance, warning, encouragement, criticism, and acceptance or rejection. Young people tend to reject discourse that is not based on reason, that adopts coercion as a method, or that limits the range of acceptable views.
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1. Goals of Islamic Education, p. 169.
2. Ibid, p. 44.